Being a people pleaser

There’s a phrase that gets thrown around in leadership and management that has always intrigued me: ‘people pleaser’. It’s intriguing because it sounds like a compliment. More often than not, it isn’t.

‘They’re a people pleaser’ is often used to refer to someone who is weak, indecisive, conflict-avoidant or just can’t say no. In management these days, it’s almost always an accusation – as though pleasing people and leading people were mutually exclusive concepts.

I’ve had this knocking around in my head for a while now, and I’ve come to a completely . . .

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Steve Tulk
Steve Tulk
Steve Tulk is the principal at Stafford House London. Steve is an experienced ELT teacher, having taught for many years in Europe, the Middle East and in the UK. He is an experienced teacher trainer and has also held academic management and school management positions in the UK and overseas. More recently, Steve worked in ELT publishing as an ELT consultant for a major publisher. As a Fellow of the The Royal Society for the Encouragement of Arts, Manufactures and Commerce (RSA), Steve is a firm believer that, while the level of knowledge and experience in our industry is outstanding, the answers to our questions don’t always come exclusively from within the ELT world.